Root of Jealousy

Often times jealousy is attributed to insecurity or low self-esteem. The root of all jealousy I believe is less about low self worth and more about pride. A closer look at the emotion of jealousy reveals the need to be the center of attention, the best or the most important. When that need is not met, that is when the sin of becoming jealous usually occurs.


Jealousy can manifest itself in many ways; angry outbursts, selfish demands, withdrawal, distancing, disrespect, devaluing others, resentment, distrust, control, being threatened and many more.


Because pride is at the root of jealousy, it is an emotion that should not be allowed much say in our lives. Pride is a sin and when it begins to control our emotions, it overwhelms all other areas. Jealousy and anger are two emotions that God has given us, and they can be useful to us at times, but they should be controlled. They are self-protective and when they are allowed to rule us, others are injured. Jealousy and anger are the dominate emotions of our fleshly natures and that is why they need to be limited.


Humility is the key to the limiting their influence in our lives. It is when we are fully surrendered to the Holy Spirit that His fruit will be freely revealed in and through us. The difference between the emotions of jealousy and anger and the fruit of the Spirit is based on our focus. Are we looking out for our well-being or for the well-being of others? Love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control are other focused and are the dominate characteristics of the Spirit driven life.